Let’s be honest—most websites don’t fail because of bad design or poor code. They fail because the server collapses under pressure like a soggy cardboard box. I’ve seen it happen. Heck, I’ve caused it (back in my early days). If you’ve ever stared at a spinning loading wheel thinking, “Why is this happening?!”—this one’s for you.
After 9+ years wrangling Apache and Nginx on everything from shared hosting to high-traffic cloud infrastructure, I’ve built a rock-solid performance checklist. In this post, I’ll walk you through exactly how I tune and optimize both servers so your site stays fast, efficient, and most importantly—up.
No fluff. Just what works.
What You’ll Learn (The Quick Version)
- How I fine-tune Apache’s modules and worker settings
- The Nginx settings that actually matter (and which ones are hype)
- My battle-tested caching and compression setup
- Monitoring tools I never go without
- Classic mistakes I’ve made—so you can skip them
- A final printable checklist for easy reference
Apache vs Nginx – A Speed Duel With a Plot Twist
First, let’s clear this up: Apache isn’t dead. It’s old, yes. But it’s flexible and battle-tested. Nginx, on the other hand, is younger, faster, and built with concurrency in mind. If Apache is a Swiss Army knife, Nginx is a scalpel—it slices through static file requests with surgical precision.
I often use both. Apache for dynamic PHP apps and legacy modules, Nginx for speed and static content. With a reverse proxy setup, you can use Nginx as a buffer to keep Apache from collapsing under load.
If you’re curious about combining the two effectively, I go deeper into that here.
Benchmark First or Fly Blind
Before tweaking a single config file, you need a baseline. Otherwise, how will you know what actually made a difference?
Here are my go-to tools:
ApacheBench (ab): Brutal and beautiful. Great for quick stress tests.
htop: For seeing what’s choking the CPU or memory.
GTmetrix / Pingdom: Because even if your server is fine, the browser might tell a different story.
Tip: Always benchmark at different times of day to account for real-world traffic patterns.
Apache Optimization (How I Keep It From Eating RAM for Breakfast)
Use mpm_event, Not prefork
Apache’s default prefork module is like opening a new tab every time you visit a website—resource-heavy and slow. I switch to mpm_event and keep my settings lean:
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<IfModule mpm_event_module>
StartServers 2
MinSpareThreads 25
MaxSpareThreads 75
ThreadsPerChild 25
MaxRequestWorkers 150
MaxConnectionsPerChild 500
</IfModule>
Want more Apache tuning tricks? Check out my detailed guide here.
Disable .htaccess (Where You Can)
I get it—.htaccess is convenient. But every time a request comes in, Apache checks all the parent directories for .htaccess files. That adds up. Unless you’re on shared hosting, move those rules into your main config and set:
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AllowOverride None
Less file access, more speed.
Enable Compression and Caching
Compression saves bandwidth. Caching saves sanity. Combine both with these modules:
- mod_deflate – Compresses your content.
- mod_expires – Controls browser caching.
Here’s a basic snippet:
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<IfModule mod_deflate.c>
AddOutputFilterByType DEFLATE text/html text/plain text/css application/javascript
</IfModule>
<IfModule mod_expires.c>
ExpiresActive On
ExpiresByType image/jpg “access plus 1 year”
ExpiresByType text/css “access plus 1 month”
</IfModule>
Ditch Unused Modules
Apache ships with modules most of us never use. Audit your active ones and turn off anything not essential.
Use:
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apache2ctl -M
Then disable with a2dismod module-name.
Nginx Optimization (Lean, Mean, and Surprisingly Friendly)
Worker Settings That Don’t Suck
Out of the box, Nginx uses only one worker. That’s cute, but you’ve got more cores than that, right?
In nginx.conf:
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worker_processes auto;
worker_connections 1024;
That alone can double your throughput.
Keep Connections Alive
Reusing TCP connections speeds up browsing—especially over HTTPS. Nginx makes this easy:
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keepalive_timeout 65;
keepalive_requests 100;
Bonus tip: If you’re using Nginx as a reverse proxy, enable keepalive upstream too.
Serve Static Files Directly
Nginx shines at serving images, CSS, and JS. Let it do the work:
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location /assets/ {
root /var/www/html;
expires 30d;
add_header Cache-Control “public”;
}
Fast and cacheable.
FastCGI Cache (Dynamic Sites Need Love Too)
If you’re running PHP apps, cache that output:
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fastcgi_cache_path /etc/nginx/cache levels=1:2 keys_zone=MYCACHE:10m inactive=60m;
fastcgi_cache MYCACHE;
fastcgi_cache_valid 200 1h;
This alone reduced load times on one of my client sites by 40%.
Tricks That Work on Both Servers
Reverse Proxy Magic
Use Nginx in front of Apache for the best of both worlds. You can configure Nginx to proxy dynamic requests to Apache while handling static content itself.
I cover how this works in detail in this post.
Monitor Everything (Yes, Everything)
Here’s what I keep an eye on:
- CPU, memory, and I/O (via htop or Netdata)
- Request per second
- 5xx errors (they sneak in)
I also recommend these tools if you want your monitoring setup to be effective without becoming a full-time job.
Secure While You Optimize
Tuning your server means nothing if it’s vulnerable. Stick with strong SSL configs, disable unused ports, and monitor login attempts.
Not sure what to secure? Start with my server security guide.
What I Got Wrong (Learn from My Pain)
These are all… let’s call them “learning moments”:
- I once left mpm_prefork active with mod_php and watched my RAM vanish in 10 minutes.
- I applied someone else’s tuning script without understanding it. Oops.
- I forgot to benchmark before and after changes. Meaning I had no idea what helped.
Save yourself the headache: test configs on a staging server. Always.
Final Performance Checklist
Here’s the quick version you can copy and tape to your wall:
Use mpm_event for Apache
Disable .htaccess (use main config)
Enable Gzip or Deflate compression
Set cache headers
Set worker_processes auto; in Nginx
Use FastCGI or proxy caching
Turn off unused modules
Monitor with Netdata or htop
Benchmark before and after every change
Keep logs clean and rotated
Wrapping Up (And a Bit of Tough Love)
Most slow websites aren’t broken—they’re just poorly tuned. Apache and Nginx are both powerful tools, but like all tools, they need attention. The good news? Once you get it right, you usually don’t have to touch it again for a while.
If you want more real-world techniques, check out my guide on server optimization techniques or how to reduce server downtime.
